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Happy Father’s Day!

Hi, remember me? I used to blog around here. ;)

First it was finals that stole my attention, then it was the LSAT that stole my soul. I’m actually heading off to Casper, WY today because tomorrow is the big day. After five weeks of studying for 6-8 hours a day, I’m ready to get this thing over with! Then I’ve got about a week to pack before I head off to Israel for a couple weeks. Busy times, busy times.

Anyway, I just wanted to drop in to say a big thank you to Roxeanne for all the awesome blogging she’s been doing around here. Without her, I fear that Haemet would recede into the depths of abandoned blogs.

Until I return, HAPPY FATHER’S DAY! And I hope you are all having a wonderful summer!

If you’re interested, here is my Father’s Day gift to my dad.

Edit:  I just realized that my little Father’s Day scrapblog goes from lesson #3 to lesson #5.  Did I mention that the LSAT stole my soul?  Don’t judge me.

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Title Should Read: “American Parents Undeserving of the Name”

More food blogging:

The Washington Post reported that children are becoming more and more obese, which is leading to an unprecedented rise in health problems.  It makes this blogger sad for the kids, whose bodies are being damaged before they are even old enough to do something about it:

Doctors are seeing confirmation of this daily: boys and girls in elementary school suffering from high blood pressure, high cholesterol and painful joint conditions; a soaring incidence of type 2 diabetes, once a rarity in pediatricians’ offices; even a spike in child gallstones, also once a singularly adult affliction. Minority youth are most severely affected, because so many are pushing the scales into the most dangerous territory.

Joint conditions and high blood pressure in elementary school?  Where are the parents, you ask?

Physical therapist Brian H. Wrotniak, who works with overweight youth at Children’s Hospital of Philadelphia, hears resignation more than anger in his patients’ voices. “They complain of simple things like tying their shoes. They can’t bend down and tie their shoes because excess fat gets in the way,” he said.

Awww… their parents are resigned to this fate.  Who, besides the parents, is feeding these kids every day?  If your kid even starts to get too fat to tie her sneakers, then you, as a parent, need to change what you are doing.  Feed your kid oatmeal or Kashi in the morning, with a banana or an apple.  Pack her lunches every day - and if you don’t have the time to do it in the morning, do it the evening before.  Enlist her help to make the aforementioned lunches; she’s more likely to eat that which she chose to eat.  Don’t allow her to spend her money on junk food - in fact, don’t allow her to bring snack money to school.  Stop purchasing soda and junk food, so she won’t have soda or junk food in the house when she gets home from school.  It is physically impossible to eat that which is not there.  Cook healthy dinners.  Sign her up for soccer or lacrosse or swimming.  Be a parent, which generally involves allowing children to make mistakes that they can learn from, and not allowing them to make mistakes that only harm them.

What baffles me is why these doctors do not tell the parents that, unless their children get down to a healthy weight, that they will be reported for  neglect.  Not a fan of government intervention, but there is simply no reason to allow parents to do this much damage to their children’s well-being.

A final hypothesis: healthy food isn’t cheap.  Fruits and vegetables are more expensive than crackers and cookies.  Ditto for fruit juice and milk, compared to soda.  Healthy food also takes longer to prepare than junk food.  Could it possibly be that stable, two-parent households (with either double the income or double the time, or both) are better designed to provide for the well-being of their children?  that this is but one more consequence of the ethic which elevates parents above their children’?  In a post-Roe world, aren’t we supposed to only see loving, caring, dedicated parents - and ignore the fact that the rates of childhood obesity, child abuse, and other social ills has only increased since the 1970s?  Just a thought.

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My Grandpa

Early Friday morning, my dad’s dad passed away.

Grandpa, Dad, and Me

When it all comes down, he was a pretty cool grandpa. Even though he had been living in southwest Kansas for over 50 years, he never really lost his New York City accent. My grandpa had an Army tattoo on his arm from when he served in WWII. He always kept a full dish of Werther’s candies on the coffee table and another on his dresser. Maybe it’s weird, but those are the things that stand out most vividly in my memory and really define him as my grandpa.

For a while now, he had been fighting some health issues. I know it was hard for him to live like that, so I’m glad that he’s no longer in pain. That said, it seems surreal that he isn’t on this earth anymore. I can’t imagine what my dad and his siblings are going through right now, because he was their dad.

Today I’m flying from DC to Denver, where my parents will pick me up and we’ll travel to Kansas together for the services. I have a couple posts scheduled to come out, but other than that, Haemet probably won’t receive much attention this week.

God bless.

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